Does your partner provide comfort when you’re sad? Does your partner hear you out and validate your feelings when you’re mad? Does your partner know when you’re upset without you telling them?[4] X Research source

If you repeatedly find yourself attracted to very smart or much less intelligent people, try to find a happy medium. Look at other factors of attraction besides intelligence, and decide what matters to you most. Shift your focus to finding a partner who is happy with or without you. These confident, content individuals will make better partners no matter what their IQ. [9] X Research source